Monday, June 15, 2009

God Owns Your Reputation

Devotional by Mrs. Molly Audiss
(From Christian Womanhood's weekly evotions)

Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

One of the greatest spiritual mentors I have had in my life is my high school principal, Dr. Don Boyd. God used him to teach me and lead me at the time I was just giving my life to serve God. One of the many doctrines that I remember him teaching us was the principle that God owns everything we have. He said that God owns our house, our school, our church, our clothes, our relatives, our friends, our lives, and our reputations; and He can do whatever He wants to do with them. I readily agreed with this truth, except the part about our reputations. I struggled with that one for many years. I felt that our reputations were our responsibility to create and uphold. I though about Proverbs 22:1, "A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold," and I was convinced for a long time that my reputation was all up to me to defend and uphold by my lifestyle and godly living.

But, like so many things, the Lord has shown me in my own life, as well as through Biblical examples, that Mr. Boyd was right. My reputation is in God's hands. He owns it as much as He owns everything in this world. Let's look at the lives of three great men of the Bible.

Joseph is the Bible character that I most admire (Genesis 37-50). There is nothing recorded about him that shows sin, evil, or wrongdoing. He was a wonderful example of a godly Christian, and he had a wonderful reputation, even as a teenager, but the Lord allowed him to lose everything and become a slave in a foreign country. He made himself a good reputation, and the Lord let him lose his good reputation when a very influential woman lied about his purity. For years he was in prison, with no way to defend himself or restore his good name, but when God wanted Joseph to regain his honor in the eyes of men, He made it happen. In one day Joseph went from being a prison inmate to being the vice president, so to speak of the most powerful nation in the world. God does what He wills with man's reputation.

Job was a man whom God considered perfect (mature and well-balanced). He was the richest man in his country. There was no one more respected than Job, yet, all at once, Job lost everything. Soon he was sitting in a garbage dump, scraping his sores. His wife had left him, and his closest friends were telling him that he was a sinner. Job did nothing to deserve this. The Lord decided to remove Job's good name for a time. Eventually, He restored Job's reputation and gave him twice as much of everything that he had before. Again, the Lord chose when a man would be honored and when he would suffer shame.

David was another example of a teenager with a heart for God (I Samuel 16-I Kings 2). He was skilled and talented enough to draw the attention of the king yet, through no fault of his own, that same king began to envy and hate him. In no time he went from "hero to zero," as King Saul hunted him as he would a wild animal. For seven years David's name was considered a curse word as the king sought to destroy him. David had done nothing wrong, but he had to suffer a bad reputation. Yet, in God's time, David became the greatest king that Israel would ever know. God so honored him that the Lord Himself calls the throne on which Christ will someday rule the "throne of David" (Luke 1:32). No one doubts how God feels about David, yet He took away David's good reputation for several years.

The ultimate example of this truth is Jesus Christ. Jesus is the Creator of the universe. All of nature praises and worships Him. He will be King of Kings for eternity. Of course, Jesus never did anything to tarnish His name; He is perfect. Still, by His own choosing, He allowed Himself to be reviled and cursed by men. He suffered a poor reputation in men's eyes. If He had not been hated, men would not have crucified Him, and we could not be saved. The Bible says that it pleased God that His Son was shamed and mistreated, because He knew all the good that would come from it (Isaiah 53:10-12). He also can see ahead to the time that His Son will be crowned in great honor and rightfully treated for ever and ever.

These examples show us that the Lord does not mind removing our good reputations from us for a time. He does not do this because He dislikes us or because He is punishing us; He does it for the greater good and for His glory. Joseph had to get from being an unknown shepherd to being the most respected and trusted man in the world. The journey was painful and involved a lost reputation, but God saved an entire nation through one man. The Lord sees all the good that will come from the painful events of our lives. It is interesting to see in the story of Joseph that, each time something bad happened to him, the Bible says that "the Lord was with Joseph." Maybe Joseph felt like we sometimes feel: "God, if You are for me, why is everything going wrong in my life?" But God saw the big picture.

Have you experienced the painful removal of your good reputation? Possibly your church is suffering criticism from the media or the government or from disgruntled church members. You know that you have done nothing wrong. Or, maybe because of our country's recession, you have, for the first time in your life, seen your financial stability disappear. The loss of a job or other circumstances out of your control caused your "economic reputation" (namely your credit score) to take a dive. You may even be answering calls from your creditors, and you never thought that would happen to you. You may feel that everyone believes the bad about you and that you are defenseless to save your good name. God knows all about these situations, and He is allowing this in your life. Hang on--it is temporary!

Now, I must say that the Lord is not responsible to help you "save face" due to your own bad decisions. If there is sin in your life and you have been found out, that is not God's fault; it is yours. You must always pay for your sin. If you have made bad decisions, then you will face the consequences of those decisions. You cannot blame God for foolishness and lack of wisdom. Look at the life of Samson in the Bible. He was a great man of God who made foolish choices and allowed himself a license to sin. He did not end up with honor and respect. That was his own fault.

But we are discussing the seeming loss of a good name through no fault of your own. You know that you have done nothing wrong, yet the Lord has allowed you to suffer shame. Well, we can see from Biblical examples that there is a happy ending. When God chooses to remove the good name from a person who loves Him and is striving to do His will, then He always restores that reputation and brings that person to even greater honor! Take the examples of Joseph, Job, David, and Jesus Himself. By the end of their stories, they were greatly loved, respected, and honored. God restored their reputations and gave them so much more than what they had! Our Lord is so loving and so fair. He never takes something from us without replacing it with something greater!

If you are now in those dark days of confusion, wondering how God could ever make things right, hold on! He will bring your situation to a glorious and satisfying conclusion. Now, looking at Bible examples, I cannot promise you that the people who are causing you pain will ever feel sorry for what they are doing. The Bible does not say that Potiphar's wife apologized to Joseph or that King Saul ever reconciled with David. He did not. But God was able to bring those men to honor despite their accusers. Let God get you out of your mess His way and in His time. He will set you in a high place, and you will be amazed at how He did it. That is the glory of the Lord. Just be happy knowing that He knows where you are, He will bring back your good name, and He will be glorified in the process. Your reputation is safe in His hands.

5 comments:

Hannah said...

Wow! Thank you for posting this, Naomi! Lord knows I needed it! Right now my family's reputation is being slandered without a cause. We're facing criticism and accusations on three different fronts right now. I understand Psalm 37:12--The wicked plotteth against the just, and gnasheth upon him with his teeth--better than I ever thought I could. I feel like everyone is chewing on us. It's very painful. But God is still in control, even though it seems like everything is spinning out of control. He knows our reputation.

"Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass. And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light, and thy judgment as the noonday. Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath: fret not thyself in any wise to do evil. For evildoers shall be cut off: but those that wait upon the LORD, they shall inherit the earth."

Thanks, my friend!

Love, Hannah

Anonymous said...

Hi Naomi!
This is Bro. Huussen, Hannah's father.
GREAT POST about reputations... Hannah just forwarded your blog to me because we just lost one third of our church members last week. Just like one third of the angels followed Lucifer... hummm...:)
Anyway, how timely to read this article. The Lord is good! I am glad you and Hannah got to "know" each other via the web! We sure do respect your hard labor up there in Alaska. Keep up your good spirit in the midst of great opposition there, our labor is NEVER in vain in The Lord (1Cor. 15:58)
By the way, the picture of you is just SO lovely and beautiful!
Have a wonderful day...

Bro. Jake B. Huussen; Amsterdam

Leanne H. said...

Hi Naomi,
Thank you for this post. I've been down all day today; you know a good deal of what we've been through recently. This is just what I needed to read. It was a big help! Thank you too for being a sweet, faithful, and godly friend to Hannah! You are precious!
Love in Christ,
Mrs. Huussen

Naomi Ungry said...

Dear Pastor Huussen, Mrs. Huussen, and my precious friend Hannah,

When I read this devotional yesterday, I could only think of you dear folks and what you are bearing for the His name's sake. I'm glad I listened to the Lord and posted it so you could find some encouragement in it. His Word does not fail to do such for weary hearts. "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matt. 11:28)

Our church is so small--we're just trying to get our few people to be faithful to church and get in the Word--that we have seldom known such struggles as you have been facing. However, wherever the missionary labors, the common enemy is fought. I know by the strong opposition you are facing that you are doing a mighty work for the Lord over there. Satan has not given you folks a minute of rest! Only be strong in the Lord; the battle is His.

I appreciate your family so much. I just can't tell you! Though your reputation is being slandered by those who you have put love, prayers, and tears into, please know that those who lift you up in prayer know your family's true reputation, and our hearts are impressed. My heart is blessed every time I think of you folks!!! Don't worry, your reputation is in good Hands. Just as the Lord brought Joseph, Job, David, and Himself to great honor, He will bring you to the same place.

And, Bro. and Mrs. Huussen, I know you realize that you have one special daughter. Hannah is beyond a blessing to me. The Lord knew just when I needed a friend like her to encourage me and build me up.

I love you folks so dearly! You're constantly on my heart and in my prayers.

Striving to please Him,

Naomi Ungry

Lauralea said...

Thank you for sharing this with me! Nothing makes sense now, but it was a good reminder of how I needed to trust God has a greater purpose in all of this. I'm grateful you contacted me, maybe we can get back in the habit of emailing again. :-)